I've been following the current thread on an itinerary for the southwest, and there is some great information on there. My mom and I are also looking at visiting Cornwall, but have already seen a lot of the sights around Salisbury, Bath and Winchester. We may try to visit Highclere Castle before heading to Cornwall, so we'd be coming from either Newbury or Winchester (have a friend there and it's an easy drive to Highclere). I'm really just looking for opinions or personal experience on driving to Cornwall vs. taking the train out and then hiring a car. Here are my current ideas - do any of them stand out as particularly good/bad?
1) Visit Highclere from a base in Newbury or Winchester, take train to Exeter and hire car, possibly stay a couple of nights in Fowey or Mevagissey to visit gardens and fishing villages nearby, then on to west Cornwall for a week (probably in self-catering cottage), take train back from Penzance or Exeter for departure from LHR
2) Take train straight from Heathrow to Exeter or Penzance (via Heathrow Connect to Paddington), hire car for our time in Cornwall, train back to Newbury or Winchester to visit Highclere
3) Same as #2, but keep the car and drive back, visit Highclere, then return car at airport
4) Hire car for the whole shooting match and not worry about the train at all.
I'm not asking anyone to decide for me - just looking for insight that will help me decide!