Fowey ( no R ) is a cute place , much like any number of Cornish fishing villages . As far as hotels vs. cottages , that depends on whether you prefer a hotel , or self catering ambience , a choice only you can make . Can't help with a private driver , but I have made several trips to Cornwall , and my preference is to have a car so that I can explore at will . The freedom of a car anywhere in rural parts of the UK is much to my taste - Here is a little hamlet that we found on the Lizard Peninsula that you can have a look at - http://www.cornwall-online.co.uk/kerrier/coverack.htm many like it and , of course the tin mining history , maritime trades , and more .