Thanks again, everyone, for your comments and continuing comments.
Well, flights are booked (arrive on a Friday in Nov); country house in Wells is booked (2ndTuesday - Monday). Although the 6 nights in Wells are to primarily to chill before heading home (husband retires just before trip), we already have several things we want to do in the area, including a day or two in Bath--a revisit to the Baths for my husband, bookstores, a gallery visit, the Christmas market for atmosphere, etc. We'll probably roam around nearby villages new to us, get back to the country house for afternoon tea, and take evening dinners in town. Hopefully, there still will be time for some Scrabble games and reading in the snug and for gazing out across the fields to the cathedral in town.
I think we'll leave Winchester for a longer visit to that area in a spring or fall, and York/Yorkshire for a Christmas season without London (or mostly:)
As usual, the days are already looking to fill quickly as we get bites of Christmas around London---Covent Garden, Leadenhall Market, Spitafields, Sloane Square/Chelsea, etc. I got a ticket to the exhibition of QEII: Her Life in Style (almost didn't get---timeslots filled as I was looking, so I'll need to move along at a good pace) which determines we won't leave London before our first Wednesday. Operation Mincemeat and Six are on our potential show list but I have not secured tickets. Was thinkiing we might try to do Witness for the Prosecution this time, but I see that only the front row and much further back are available. (Has anyone sat in the front row around the stage?) The Lives of Others looks interesting, too. And would love to see The Snowman (seeing the World of the Snowman exhibit at the VAG in Bath) Decisions, decisions! There are so many shows we'd love to see.
We're still considering a few days in Chester as it's a new location for us; it's a couple of hours by train (we've missed train trips since we've had a car for our more recent visits); it has a cathedral; it'll sport some Christmas spirit.
I'm wondering if we should head to Chester on Wednesday evening after I see the QE exhibit (rather than a morning train). Accommodation will be less expensive than London and we'd be able to hit the ground running the next day. Perhaps head back to London on Saturday during daylight (is the train ride scenic or will we just read or rest on the trip?) so we could have 3 nights back in London before heading to Wells. Or maybe we will be trying to get another show in on Wed night. After Wells, we have one night before our flight out on a Tuesday afternoon. We will stay in Reading (visit the Tapestry copy?), Windsor (love the Sir Christopher Wren hotel, decent price) or at the airport.
Thanks for thoughts about my ramblings...
Cheryl