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Planning 2 Week Trip to India- Advice on Itinerary

Hi! My partner and I are planning a ~2 week trip to India in February 2023. We are a gay couple, so please keep this in mind based on recommendations as our safety is important (we will avoid any public displays of affection.)

We're deciding between 3 itineraries:

Option 1: Delhi [overnight stay after flight] > Agra [1 night] > Jaipur [3 nights] > Munnar via Plane + Car [2 nights] > Alleppey [2 nights] > Goa, via overnight train [2 nights].

Option 2: Delhi [overnight stay after flight] > Agra [1 night] > Jaipur [3 nights] > Udaipur, via Plane [2 nights] > Munar via Plane + Car [2 nights] > Goa, via overnight train [2 nights].

Option 3: Delhi [overnight stay after flight] > Agra [1 night] > Jaipur [3 nights] > Udaipur, via Plane [2 nights] > Alleppey, via Plane + Train [2 nights] > Goa, via overnight train [2 nights].

Our budget per night ranges between $150-350+ USD. The key difference between the options is whether to prioritize more time in the south (Alleppey/Munnar) versus time in the north (Udaipur).

We are trying to avoid heavily congested areas during our trip, and want to balance between more formal sights (palaces, temples, etc.) and nature. We also want to feel a good level of luxury in all places we visit.

While we think Option 1 seems like the best choice, we're worried that we might get "burnt out" from the viewing of palaces and temples in the North and that we should perhaps optimize to see tea plantations and the backwaters of the south.

- What advice do you have on how to make the right choice?

- We're worried Alleppey might end up being boring beyond the backwaters and that we may even find the backwaters a little disappointing given the journey. Is that fair compared to Udaipur?

- Do you have any specific drivers or tour guides you've worked with in these locations you'd recommend?

Thanks for your help!

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We have only been to four ports in SW India, but one thing I would STRONGLY recommend is take the train. NO rental car, driving in India would be a nightmare. The highways are congested with many vehicles, many motorcycles and even bikes.

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My husband and I visited India twice. On our first visit, we were in Delhi, Varanasi, Agra, and Rajasthan (Jaipur, Bundi, Udaipur, Jaisalmer). The second visit, we were in Tamil Nadu and Kerala, later visiting Mumbai (which we enjoyed).

We much preferred our first trip. We were blown away by the towns and cities of Rajasthan, loved pretty much we saw elsewhere, and Varanasi was one of the most remarkable experiences we’ve ever had while traveling. We liked the trip to the south, but we were not nearly as awed by the experiences. And, perhaps it’s getting jaded after our first overwhelming trip, we were much more affected by the poverty, particularly in Tamil Nadu.

On both trips, we worked with locally based travel agents and had private drivers. That makes the trip a lot less stressful and becomes manageable. In a place such as India, I highly recommend working with an agent and not doing it entirely on your own.