Thailand.
I'm trying to be objective about Thailand. I was prepared to love it, found i didn't, but as I look back I'm seeing more clearly.
First thing - Thailand is jammed with tourists. As jammed as anywhere I've been in Europe. More jammed in fact. Add in 39+ Celsius heat, and stricter dress codes for temples than for churches in Italy.
First port day was Ko Samui. Or Koh Samui, I've seen both spellings. We did "Highlights of Ko Samui", from Travel Authentic Asia (TAA), not including elephant interaction. This was a deliberate choice. Most excursions included elephants, but we were concerned about the ethics of it.
Our excursion wasn't the best. It was a whistle stop tour that was temple heavy. The guides English was almost non-existant. He tried hard but couldn't answer questions, even simple ones (someone needed a lift/elevator, and he didn't have a clue what was being asked). On the bright side, there were only six of us on the tour and the included lunch was delicious, plentiful and not rushed.
We stopped at a waterfall which was advertised as a swimming stop, but none of us oldies on the tour were going to leap off a rock 30 feet into the water.
To get to the waterfall we passed two elephants that looked very poorly kept, saddled up for rides, and tourists were paying for bananas to feed them. Both were demonstrating repetitive tics (eg repeated dipping head banging it into fence). I couldn't even look at them; they looked so distressed.
After Singapore, Ko Samui looked poor and dirty. I think it would show better with a longer stay at a nice beachfront hotel. In retrospect, the short walk into Nathon would have been a better day from a cruise ship.