Some thoughts - I answered another thread, hope it’s useful for your trip. (I lived in Tokyo decades ago for 7+ years, visited last in 2019.) Here are some ideas in case you missed this thread! https://community.ricksteves.com/travel-forum/beyond-europe/first-trip-to-japan-b5d2700e-ff90-4677-bca3-247b55606746.
Of all the things I suggested above, consider a visit to this onsen on the outskirts of Tokyo, totally worthwhile! Maenohara onsen (old Japanese hot springs) close to Tokyo, you can get a taxi from nearby subway station. I sent some Japanese friends there, they loved it! It's extraordinary. We bathed and then put on our Yukatas to sit in in the tetami mat dining room and look at the Japanese garden, a real treat! Unless you have tattoos... (not allowed in any onsens that I know.) https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g1066446-d3387591-Reviews-Maenohara_Onsen_Sayano_Yudokoro-Itabashi_Tokyo_Tokyo_Prefecture_Kanto.html
The Hiking in Japan guide was very useful while we lived there, (we probably hiked 40 mountains) but I would take it with a grain of salt and investigate the destinations. Not all were as amazing as indicated! And also A Guide to Japanese Hot Springs, where I discovered by FAR my favorite hike - Sandogoya, a day-hike into a remote area with accommodation in the mountains of Nikko National Park but NOT that close to Nikko. I sent some young intrepid friends there, they managed without speaking Japanese and said it was absolutely the best place they visited in Japan. The inn with the actual hot springs was so grotty (30 years ago) we only ever stayed at the adjacent one, believe it or not I found the phone number. Yunoka Pension. 0288-62-2326. We were not sorry to skip the hot springs, the hike into & out of these mountains is delightful! (My data gathering was all pre-internet, who know there are probably details on line now to both these inns.)
I understand Koya-san is more crowded than it was decades ago but we loved it and stayed in a buddhist monastery. It's a remote mountain area with myriad Buddhist temples, here's a GREAT you tuber who talks about her visit overnight at a temple, (it was nice to listen to her fluently bi-lingual discussions.) One Forum member mentioned meeting someone else who had stayed in this Koya-san temple. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h0vk9JzDSxs.
I have not stayed here, but if I ever go back to Kyoto, it's top of my list of places to stay, and they have 'western' style rooms with some Japanese ambience but beds off the floor, not on the floor, which I know I could no longer tolerate.https://youtu.be/hS4d7i6Mr_E?si=lcY40cVEdacVw9Tw.
Hope you have a great trip! Of all my overseas travel, Japan is the one place I could return to again and again, so much to explore.