EDIT - I am convinced. We will return the car in the Netherlands. While we are used to horrible traffic (we live in the DC area), we understand the concerns. Thank you for your advice. It is appreciated and heard.
We will be coming from a week in the Netherlands and have a question about the train vs a car. We are mid-60s and have traveled a lot. We will be renting a car for the last two days in the Netherlands and have two choices. We can return the car and then train to Bruges (via Brussels or Antwerp) - OR- we can keep the car and return it before we fly out of Amsterdam. I think the cost is similar and the car gives us more flexibility. Here are our plans for July
Tues - We will be coming from Geithorn, Netherlands. We can drive to Bruges and keep the car (the one-way rental is ridiculous so we can't just return it there) or return in the car in Amsterdam and train. Regardless, we head to Bruges on Tuesday. We are staying in Bruges to capitalize on the quiet in the evening and mornings. We will need a place to park the car until we leave Bruges. If we drive, we may have time to stop in Antwerp on the way to Bruges.
Weds - Bruges, including a chocolate making class. Possible bike to Daame.
Thurs - train to Ghent and spend the day there.
Fri - drive (if we keep the car, train if we don't) to Brussels and spend the day there. Get to Schipol in the evening and spend the final night there before departing on Saturday.
Would we need to book a parking spot in Bruges in advance? We plan to just leave the car while we are then and not use it until we go to Brussels, if we keep the car. Is that safe? Our hotel has parking but it's very expensive. How do we find reasonable and safe parking?
The issue with train is really that we would want to take the Thalys from and back to Amsterdam, but it books up early and is pretty expensive when you factor in 2 people. And it's expensive. About 520 euros round trip for the two of us. And it's not flexible.
Are there alternatives or issues we are not thinking about?